Orthodox Christianity, which includes Greek, Russian, Serbian, Coptic and other Eastern Orthodox traditions, teaches that death is a passage from earthly life into eternal life with God. Funeral rites are rich in prayer, symbolism and reverence, reflecting the Church’s deep belief in the resurrection and the dignity of every person.

Kemps Creek Memorial Park supports families by providing a peaceful and respectful setting for Orthodox Christian burials, honouring the traditions, customs and liturgical practices that guide the journey from death to eternal life.

Why this guide exists

Orthodox Christian funerals involve specific rituals that emphasise prayer, humility and hope in the resurrection. This guide is designed to:

• Help families understand the funeral rites and customs
• Support visitors who may be unfamiliar with Orthodox traditions
• Share the key elements of the service, committal and mourning periods
• Show how Kemps Creek Memorial Park accommodates Orthodox needs

Core beliefs

Orthodox Christians believe that death is not an ending but a transition. The soul begins a 40 day spiritual journey after death, culminating in a personal judgment before God. The funeral rites, prayers and memorial services help support the soul during this time and bring comfort to the family.

Structure of an Orthodox Christian funeral

1. Preparation and wake

The body is washed, dressed and placed in an open casket. A wake or prayer service, often called the Trisagion, may take place the evening before the funeral. Hymns and prayers are chanted for the peaceful repose of the soul.

2. Funeral service

The funeral service is usually held in an Orthodox church or chapel. Throughout the service:

• Psalms, hymns and prayers are chanted
• Incense is offered to honour the body, the soul and God
• The priest speaks of mercy, forgiveness and the hope of resurrection

The casket remains open, symbolising humility and trust in God. The service typically concludes with the chant “Memory Eternal,” a prayer for the soul to be remembered in God’s Kingdom.

3. Burial and graveside prayers

The burial service takes place at the cemetery. The body is lowered into the grave while prayers and blessings are offered. Families and mourners may place a handful of earth into the grave as a final act of love.

Traditionally, cremation is not permitted in Orthodox Christianity, as the body is viewed as a sacred vessel of the Holy Spirit.

Mourning and commemoration

Orthodox mourning practices follow meaningful timelines designed to support both the soul and the grieving family:

• Prayers on the 3rd, 9th and 40th day after death
• The 40th day is especially significant and often includes a memorial service
• Annual memorials may be held on the anniversary of death
• Families may refrain from celebrations for a period of mourning, often 40 days

Memorial items such as icons, candles and koliva (a sweet wheat dish symbolising new life) may be used during commemorations.

Contemporary practice in Australia

The Orthodox Christian community in Australia is diverse, with cultural variations across Greek, Serbian, Russian, Coptic and other traditions. While customs may differ, the core liturgical elements and spiritual principles remain consistent. Kemps Creek Memorial Park works closely with families and clergy to ensure these traditions are respected.

Steps at a glance

1. Body preparation

• The body is washed and dressed, often by clergy or family
• The deceased is placed in an open casket with a cross or icon

2. Wake or Trisagion service

• A short prayer service may be held the night before the funeral
• Hymns and prayers are offered for the repose of the soul

3. Funeral service

• Held in an Orthodox church with hymns, incense and prayers
• The casket remains open throughout the service

4. Final kiss

• Mourners may approach the casket to kiss the icon or the deceased’s hand
• This act symbolises farewell, love and spiritual unity

5. Burial

• Prayers are offered at the grave
• Mourners may place soil into the grave
• Cremation is not permitted

6. Memorial services

• Prayers on the 3rd, 9th and 40th day
• Annual memorials may be held on the anniversary of death

What to expect if you are attending an Orthodox Christian funeral

What to wear

Mourners should dress modestly in dark clothing. Women may choose to wear a head covering in some traditions. Clothing should reflect respect and humility.

What to bring

You are not expected to bring anything. A small sympathy card is appropriate. Flowers may be accepted depending on cultural tradition, but they are not essential.

Participation

Standing is common during Orthodox services. Incense, chanting and the sign of the cross may be observed. Non-Orthodox guests are welcome to attend respectfully but should not receive Holy Communion.

Offering condolences

It is appropriate to offer quiet condolences after the service or graveside. Some families may prefer that expressions of sympathy focus on prayer, reflection or respectful silence, especially during the first 40 days.

Orthodox Christian funerals at Kemps Creek Memorial Park

Kemps Creek Memorial Park provides a peaceful and respectful environment for Orthodox Christian burials. We work closely with families, priests and funeral directors to ensure that all liturgical and cultural traditions are honoured with dignity and care.